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Ministry
Unfolding (Chapter 9, Pages 50 - 57)
Finally,
I get to join the story. Mother and dad had been very happily married
for ten months when I joined them.
Daddy used to laugh about really "hitting the jackpot"
when I was born. He was so excited about his little girl that as
soon as he could leave my mother, he ran to a pay phone in the hospital
to let everybody know that he was a father. He had finished making
his calls and was leaving the phone booth when the phone began to
make a strange noise. Suddenly all the change came pouring out of
the coin return, piling up on the floor. Daddy was so excited about
the baby that he just closed the door and ran back to my mother's
room. He always wondered what the next person to use the phone thought
when they opened when they opened the door to the phone booth and
saw all that change lying there. Daddy picked out the name for his
new little girl. He called me Sharon Rose after the Rose of Sharon.
The
Bucks moved from Granger to Union Gap, Washington. This was a pretty
little town on the outskirts of Yakima. It was nestled in the area
of Washington that is famous for its apples.
Daddy
spent many hours visiting in that little town. Because of all the
fruit, there were many Mexican labor camps full of transient workers.
Mother used to laugh at my father and tease him about beating the
Welcome Wagon to new people in town.
Union
Gap was also near an Indian reservation, and daddy used to take
me with him when he held services there. I learned how to sing when
I was eighteen months old, but I looked like a much younger child
because I was as bald as a billiard ball! It used to really amaze
the Indians to see this little bald baby sing clear as a bell, "Jesus
Loves Me" and other favorite children's choruses.
God
once again honored daddy's hard work and dedication. Soon the little
church in Union Gap was filled and it was time to build once more.
My
parents told me later that they wondered at the time about spending
so much of their efforts with the migrant workers who could not
be permanent members of their little church, but it was worth it.
Those dear Spanish people got saved, then they would take the message
of God's love with them. Years later, mother and daddy reaped the
reward of their efforts when they heard reports that many of these
people were still serving the Lord.
My
father's priority, and now my mother's, continued to be the message
of reconciliation.
One
day when I was three years old, my Aunt Margaret took me home with
her for a visit. I was very happy about the visit, because I had
a little cousin, Dick, just my age. We two three year olds had a
great time playing together. Unfortunately, on this visit, Dick
had a little gift for me - a rip roaring case of the mumps! Margaret
had her hands full with two mumpy little cousins.
The
visit was a little longer than expected, however, because little
Charm was born, and I could not go home until my mumps were gone.
I was so excited about having a baby sister that as soon as I arrived
from Aunt Margaret's house, I broke out into the measles, which
were promptly passed on to my new little sister. Daddy came home
from an evangelistic meeting to find all three of his girls in bed.
The
little Buck family had been in Union Gap for four years when the
Lord directed them to Gooding, Idaho, a little farming town about
one-hundred miles from Boise.
There
were two churches in Gooding. One was the little church that had
been started in temporary quarters, with a small apartment in the
back for the minister and his family. Sitting right next to it was
the skeleton of a larger church that had been started, but somehow
had never been completed. The frame for that new church had been
sitting there for twelve years.
In
Gooding, growth occurred once again as my parents rolled up their
sleeves. My father could not stand the sight of that unfinished
building. With faith burning in his heart, he inspired the congregation
to catch the vision for souls and together they tackled that unfinished
church. They were so proud of the lovely new facility when it was
completed.
<< Gooding, Idaho
Since
little Charm was only one, and there was another baby on the way,
daddy took his little Sharon everywhere with him. I would ride with
him on his visits to members of the congregation with my hand on
his shoulder, or sit on my knees beside him with my arm around his
neck. I was so proud of my handsome daddy. I would look up at him
and ask, "Do you think people will think you're my boyfriend?"
Daddy
loved to show off our feats of daring. He would put his hand on
the ground, and have me stand on it, then very slowly he would raise
his hand above his head with me standing stiff-legged with my arms
outstretched. He also loved to show visiting ministers and evangelists
how fast he was with his fist, and come within a hairsbreadth of
my little nose. What control! I would stand there with perfect trust
not even blinking an eye.
<< Sharon at two
Polio,
that dreaded disease, hit with epidemic force. Children were falling
victim everywhere. I became very ill. My legs hurt so badly I couldn't
move without screaming. My fever was high, and my head hurt. The
doctor shook his head and said to my parents, "It doesn't look
good. It could be polio. You'll have to take her to the hospital
in Boise for tests."
Daddy
bundled me up in some blankets, and a member of the congregation
drove us to Boise. Once again daddy's tremendous strength and stamina
surfaced as he held his little girl in his arms. The slightest movement
caused great pain to my legs, so the car had to be driven very slowly.
Daddy sat in one position, holding me very still for almost three
hours.
I
was in isolation in the hospital, but all the tests for polio came
back negative. Instead, it was rheumatic fever. My legs wouldn't
be crippled, but my heart had been damaged. The only cure was for
me to lie flat on my back in bed until my heart healed. What a sentence
for an active four year old!
Being
sick in bed wasn't so bad after all, because daddy decided to teach
me how to read. He didn't like the "Dick and Jane" books,
so he proceeded to find one that would be more interesting. The
exciting little book that he found was entitled The Saggy Baggy
Elephant. Some of my very first vocabulary words were, "the
Limpopo River".
It's
a boy! Once again, daddy was busy telephoning everyone with the
good news. Little Terry Lee. He was dark like my father, with brown
shoe button eyes. Life was good. I was on the mend, little Charm
was a cute ray of sunshine, and now the Buck family had been blessed
with a boy!
Six
months passed. It was a sunny spring day in Gooding. In the parsonage,
mother had her day planned. She was going to whisk thru the house
and get it all shiny clean for daddy. She got all of us ready for
the day, and then about mid-morning, put Terry down for his nap.
He was a little fussy, but was probably teething. Mother decided
to just let him fuss until he went to sleep. Lunchtime came and
she fixed lunch for us girls. Terry was surely taking a long nap.
That was good; he'd be really happy when daddy came home.
Daddy
arrived and Terry was still sleeping. Finally, mother decided that
he had slept long enough. She went into the bedroom to wake up her
precious little boy. She picked him up.
Suddenly,
I heard mother cry out, "Roland!" She came running into
the living room holding their little son out to him. "Roland,
he's dead, he's dead!" she sobbed.
Daddy
took his little boy in his arms, put him over is shoulder and began
to walk with him, patting him gently on the back. He noticed that
I was sitting up in bed staring out of my door! He gave me a big
smile and quietly shut the door of my bedroom. Not really understanding
what was happening, I continued to watch thru the keyhole. I had
never seen my daddy look so sad.
Carefully,
he laid Terry on the couch and called the doctor. The doctor examined
the little body, then said gently, "It looks like crib death.
We don't know why or how it happens, but there is nothing you can
do to prevent it!" Very compassionately he said to my mother,
"It wasn't your fault, Mrs. Buck. There is absolutely nothing
you could have done".
It
was a very hard time for the Buck family. Mother's nerves could
not stand the strain. My father took her home to be with her mother
for a short time. We two girls were sent to stay with friends. Mother
says now that it was daddy's gentleness, love and understanding
that brought her thru this hard time.
Daddy
was only twenty-nine years old, I was in bed flat on my back, his
only son had died, mother was ill, when tragedy struck again. His
father, Hoyt, died of cancer, and just a short time later, his mother
passed away.
What
a training time for a young pastor. One day I came to him and climbed
up into his lap.
"Daddy",
I said, "I'm going to make mommy smile again! I've got a wonderful
surprise coming tomorrow morning."
"What
is it, honey?" he asked.
"I
just asked God to give Terry back to us. I told Him to put him in
my bed, and tomorrow morning, I'm going to carry him in to mommy!"
Daddy
just hugged me close. Then he told me something I never forgot,
a truth that was the foundation stone of his own personal ministry.
"Honey,
God can see ahead to what we can't see. He probably looked ahead
in Terry's life, and saw some hurt, or maybe He saw that when Terry
got older, he might not serve Him. Anyway, God decided that He would
take Terry home to heaven with Him right now, and spare him those
things that may be in the future. And, honey, I want to tell you
something. God always does the right thing. You can trust Him!"
Instead
of feeling any bitterness toward God, daddy squared his shoulders
and declared that he was serving God because of who He was, not
because of what He did. This hard time in his life mellowed him
and gave him a depth of compassion for people who were hurting that
was very unusual for one so young.
Bible
school at midnight? My father was not adverse to trying something
new to get out the message of God's love. Mr. Wilbur "Boom"
Slagel had just found the Lord thru my parent's ministry in Gooding.
He immediately felt the call of God on his life, but he didn't have
any formal training. He knew that with his large family it would
be impossible for him to go to Bible school to prepare himself for
full-time service.
He
shared this with daddy, and he could hardly believe his ears when
my father said, "That's no problem at all. I'll train you."
Brother Slagel said, "But Pastor Buck, I work nights and, as
a result, I sleep during the day." Daddy told him, "You
come to my house every night at midnight during your lunch break,
and I'll teach you from the Bible everything I have learned. This
will be your Bible school."
So,
for the next few months, six nights a week, a young pastor would
roll out of his bed at twelve o'clock each night and give the older
man a Bible study. This went on until Brother Slagel was ready to
go out and pastor on his own.
Pastor
Slagel shared the same beautiful knowledge of the nature of God
that his teacher had, and pioneered at least four different churches
around the country before his death.
Bob
Slagel, Boom Slagel's son, was about fifteen. He was the ring leader
of the street gang in Gooding. Bob would bring his gang to church,
and if he didn't like what was happening, he would get up and walk
out, followed by the others.
One
Sunday night after the service, the people had gathered in the front
of the sanctuary and were having a wonderful time of prayer. Bob
was in the back of the church with his friends causing a ruckus.
Daddy came quietly up behind Bob, scooped him up around the middle,
and literally carried him up to the front and placed him right in
the center of that prayer circle. He looked at dad, his eyes flashing
with hate, but his hate was totally melted by the great big warm
smile that shone back at him.
Several
weeks later on a sunny afternoon, as daddy was out driving, he saw
Bob with three of his buddies. He stopped and asked, "How about
going for a ride with me in my V-12 Zephyr?" This car was a
Lincoln and very special. Most cars only had eight cylinders, this
car had twelve. Everyone was really impressed with it, especially
the boys.
They
all hopped in and took off for a drive in the country. They were
having a great time when suddenly daddy turned into the cemetery.
They all wondered what on earth Pastor Buck was doing there!
Daddy
turned to them and said, "Would you mind stopping by Terry's
grave with me for a minute?" Of course, they couldn't say no.
As
they stood around the little grave in which their pastor's only
son had been buried about two months before, dad said to them, "Would
you guys mind kneeling here with me for a minute? I would like to
have a word of prayer."
They
all knelt and daddy began to pray right out of his heart, just talking
to God as though he was talking to any one of his friends. He said,
"I understand what you are doing in the lives of these boys,
but Father, I really do not understand about Terry. Yet Father,
I know that you have all wisdom, and I thank you for that. Father,
Charm and I dedicated Terry to you, and in your foreknowledge, you
knew that somehow his little life would make an impact, even though
it was so very short. God, these guys are like my sons, and I would
ask you today to help them take Terry's place since Terry is with
you. God, in this way, Terry's death will not be in vain."
Years
later, as Bob was sharing this scene with me to include in my book,
he was overcome with emotion as he recalled this event that changed
his life.
Bob
told me that everyone of the four young men were so broken up, they
wept and wept. That day, each of them made a commitment to the Lord
that has lasted to this day.
Two
of them went into the full-time ministry. Bob Slagel was one of
them, and he has been instrumental in leading many people to Jesus.
This all began at the grave of a six-month-old boy whose life, though
short, did count!
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